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Discernment.
2008, New
beginnings, a new world both inside and outside ourselves. New
creations, the last remnants of the old being transformed and
released, releasing old belief systems. Much of this is about our
upbringing and our belief systems around religion, culture etc, all
of them are projections of old truths that we were taught along the
way.
Because of
the times of change we have now entered we are seeing this happening
all over the World on a daily basis. People are more often in
judgment, pointing fingers, calling others on their actions and
often ourselves, going into defense mode while we are not
consciously aware why we are being teat so badly. Especially because
we feel we do not deserve it.
In many of
these situations we often triggered something within each other and
we reacted from the hurt inner child. We no longer need to do this,
we can see through it for what it is and if it is a projection from
the other we may love them enough to point this out to them. 2008 began for so many with transformations from the old into the new and we may be grateful to those that assisted us to see the old and that our discernment skills are being honed with every experience. Often they were projections from inner fears and old sores/wounds. These times were often experienced in solitude and separation and that too was perfect, we needed that time so that we could fully integrate these understandings into ourselves. Because we have, we can now reach out and show others what is happening, why and how
we
successfully saw through the old illusion. It is also important to
appreciate that the inner child, ego healing is one that must take
place from within the person going through the experience, we cannot
do it for them. Often even though we are socially orientated beings we find ourselves withdrawing and separating ourselves. In the beginning we are fragile and take this course of action because it hurts us and we are often seeking the answers within ourselves as to what we did wrong and why this was placed on our path. This generally creates a vicious circle that comes from the old habit of seeking acceptance and approval for what we do outside ourselves. When we are denied it or even judged for it, it is experienced as painful and rejection. This is happening because it is time to realize that (presumably) all that we are doing is coming from our hearts and from a place of love. The question here then must be: What is it in ourselves that we are rejecting or not accepting that we feel the need to seek it outside ourselves. You only need to look/listen around your circle of friends and you see/hear them talking about how so many are seeking isolation, that so many are now judging others, so many are now pointing the proverbial finger more often and that now that we know whatis happening we see when people are placing blame outside themselves in order not to be faced with their own inadequacies. We see how these old fears are blocking people, stopping them from seeing through the illusion, they are choosing to remain in the old pattern or comfort zone and often temporarily coming out on top by using the old patterns. Of course we know that this is indeed only a temporary victory, because we also know that the personal lessons are being placed in front of us at an ever increasing rate and they are becoming more and more painful until they are willing to look at themselves. Until they do, the experience of confliction with themselves and all around them will continue.
This is a
part of what we are being asked to look at and change in 2008, a
momentary victory by overpowering or over bluffing our opponents
will no longer work. We are being forced to see through the old
illusion, releasing the old and painful ways, fears, frustrations,
addictions, etc in order to heal them. We are realizing that the old
way no longer serves us and when we realize that, we find that when
it is placed on our path again, we are not reacting to it in the old
ways. All we need to do is notice/acknowledge the change, be
grateful for it and have compassion for others around us who have
not quite got there yet. Give yourself a pat on the back if this is
the case. If not? Be willing to look inside and see where the pain
is coming from and be willing to heal it.
In
relationships at the moment I am seeing these factors among many of
my clients. Expectations are surfacing, feelings of love are being
examined and questioned and perhaps unaware it is offering some of
the most precious of gifts. Where we perhaps thought we had no
expectations, it turns out we often do. Where at times one speaks of
love and togetherness often turns out to be ego and placing ones
will on the other. The fear of loss is often present and is the
opposite of freedom and LOVE. If your in a relationship? This is
what you are being asked to look at this year. Loving and open communication is the only way to move out of the old and releasing old patterns and ways. Being in truth with each other when they surface and lovingly looking for ways to change them will result in ONENESS. Open and loving communication means nothing will be hidden, often it may be two different versions of truth that will certainly appear to be opposites. This may well often create or open an ego conflict, which in its self is perfect when dealt with through love and a willingness to come together. For while that intent is there, you may be assured that there are many assisting you to fulfill that desire.
We are on the
path of returning to oneness together and the above mentioned
example is one way of doing that. We will learn the deeper meaning
of trust, of love and loving each other in the knowing that we are
all in our own way traveling the journey back to oneness. Acceptance
of the uniqueness is also an opening to achieve that in
relationships. Today I happened to read a report in a local newspaper that stated 70% of all arguments in the home are centered around the TV. This in its self is showing us what has happened here. The TV has become the center point of many peoples lives together and communication together has diminished. One might choose to separate and listen to music, or be on the computer. We are not saying that these choices are the reason for the breakup in communication because it is ok too choose for ones self how one passes free time. Sometimes it will be together and sometimes it will be alone and that is perfectly ok. What is important is that we allow th choice and not be drawn into a conflict because of those choices. Allow the other their choices, find a balance together and enjoy each others differences. Two similar personalities will not learn from each other and that is why in the perfection of the soul growth together you have attracted an opposite in many ways. Listen to each other, accept each others differences and find common grounds. This is compassion and love for each others uniqueness and above all for your self.
Working with
my dear friend has provided me benefits in other ways too. He was
given a symbol that has helped me a great deal in these kind of
situations. It was the “Omniversal Consciousness Symbol. It works
powerfully on the divine masculine, divine feminine, (the inner
twinflame) the connection with mother earth and universal
consciousness and inner and outer truth. It brings all aspects into
balance and is often experienced as a transformation process as
described above. It is not only the inner self that came into
balance which is of course the most important to start with. However
it also assists us in seeing what we need to outside ourselves. It
helps us to see whether it a projection from another or it is a
piece of ourselves that is asking to be looked at eventually
bringing into balance the ultimate truth.
Clearly this power symbol
is enhancing the discernment skills.
This article
was written just a couple of hours after wearing the symbol for the
first time. It worked for me, I found the inner balance, the veils
were lifted and challenges were seen for what they were. I do work
with all of the symbols but for this article, the power symbol
worked perfectly for me. Wishing you all LOVE and Light Oneness.
Invaluable
worth The same purpose and goal. Marjo
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